As 2020 crawls to an end I keep hearing people say, “How could you not wear a mask/ go to a big gathering/ travel to someplace/ or vote for him”. An already ugly year has sunk even deeper for most of us as the US election grinds towards a conclusion. Fatigue has set in; tensions are high, and tempers are flaring.
Friends are attacking a friend because her state voted a way they oppose. Kind, mild manner people are snapping at co-workers. Friendships are ending due to differing political perspectives. Bridges are being burned between family members, friends and colleagues. It’s disheartening to most of us. We want to get back to a time where family and/or friends could meet up for dinner and drinks, have interesting conversations and connect on a personal level. A dose of normalcy would be welcome right now.
Sadly, the pandemic isn’t ending this week, the election results are taking time to get sorted out, and yet life must go on. How do we find peace during all this turmoil? Is it possible to stay friends with people who see things differently? What can I do to keep friends without being a punching bag?
Here are 3 tips for getting through these chaotic times with some sanity left.
There is so much hate rhetoric out in the world right now. We can use our voice to bring understanding to those we interact with each day. Wouldn’t it be nice to have others take time to understand our perspective? It may take you starting the conversation by seeking to understand their perspective. Let’s be the person who openly exchanges ideas, promotes acceptance and welcomes new perspectives. We do this we can, hopefully, hear less statements that start with “How could you”.
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